If You See a Woman Wearing a Wedding Ring On Her Pinky, Here’s What It Means
Have you ever come across a woman wearing a ring, maybe simple or adorned with a single stone, on her pinky finger? It’s easy to make assumptions based on how pinky rings are depicted in movies and media, but contrary to these portrayals, a pinky ring is not a sign of secretive affiliations. Rather, today, both single women and those in relationships are choosing pinky rings for an entirely different, heartfelt reason—they symbolize a promise, not to a partner, but a promise of self-love.
The Growing Popularity of Pinky Rings as a Symbol of Self-Love
The emergence of the pinky ring movement largely stems from Fred + Far, a jewelry company established by Melody Godfred and Samira Far. Their idea rests on a compelling notion: celebrating one’s self-worth, detached from relationship status. Though these rings resemble engagement rings in their design, their essence differs entirely. They’re not about romantic love but about cherishing oneself.
Melody Godfred was inspired to introduce this concept from a personal revelation. As a mother of twins, she often found herself prioritizing others’ needs over her own, leaving her feeling overlooked. Realizing it was time to focus on self-care, she explained in an interview:
“I opted for a pinky ring because it was a finger I’d never adorned before. Just as often, women are overlook in their own lives. Claiming a symbol typically associated with commitment to someone else—a ring—and saying, ‘This time, I choose me,’ felt incredibly empowering. I wear my engagement ring with pride, and the two are not exclusive. By loving yourself, you enhance your ability to love someone else.”
